Weight during the menopause

You're eating the way you always have, but your weight is going up, especially around your belly. It isn't a lack of willpower – your body really does change during the menopause. Here's what's happening and what helps.

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In short: protein at every meal, strength exercises twice a week, a walk every day, sleep and a small calorie deficit. Talk to your doctor about symptoms (hot flushes, sleeplessness).

What changes during the menopause

  • Fat moves to the belly. As oestrogen falls, fat tends to build up around the waist – even if your overall weight changes little.
  • Muscle and bone mass go down. Less muscle means less energy used.
  • Worse sleep. Hot flushes and night sweats get in the way of sleep, and tiredness makes you want to snack.
  • Mood swings and stress change eating habits too.

What helps

Food

  • A small deficit. About 300–500 kcal less than you need. A strict diet during the menopause often takes muscle. Check your number.
  • Protein – about 25–30 g at each main meal. Curd cheese (quark), eggs, fish, poultry, pulses. See our high-protein recipes.
  • Calcium and vitamin D – for your bones. Dairy products, curd cheese, fish.
  • Fibre – vegetables, pulses, wholegrain foods. For fullness and your gut.
  • Less alcohol. It doesn't just add calories – it can also make hot flushes worse and disturb your sleep.

Movement

  • Strength exercises twice a week – for your muscles and bones. Squats, wall press-ups, resistance band exercises.
  • A walk every day – a walk after a meal helps both your weight and your sleep.

Sleep

  • a cooler bedroom, a lighter duvet;
  • going to bed at a similar time every day;
  • less caffeine after lunch.

Realistic expectations

During the menopause, weight often comes off more slowly. 0.25–0.5 kg a week is an excellent pace. Sometimes a good result is simply that your weight has stopped going up and your waist is getting smaller. Keep an eye on more than the scales: your waist size, strength, energy and sleep.

When to talk to a doctor

If hot flushes, sleeplessness or mood changes are getting in the way of your life, see your GP or a gynaecologist – there are effective treatments. See a doctor too if your weight changes suddenly and for no clear reason.

Before you change how you eat to lose weight, talk to your doctor first if:

  • you are pregnant or breastfeeding;
  • you have diabetes or take medicines that affect your blood sugar;
  • you have kidney disease, heart disease or another long-term condition;
  • you are under 18;
  • you have or have had an eating disorder;
  • you are losing weight without trying.

If your relationship with food worries you, you can talk to a doctor or a psychologist. If you're struggling right now, call your local emergency number or find a free helpline at findahelpline.com.

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Frequently asked questions

Why do you gain weight during the menopause?

As oestrogen falls, fat tends to build up on the belly rather than the hips. At the same time muscle mass goes down with age, sleep often gets worse because of hot flushes, and people move less. Together, all this means weight goes on more easily and comes off more slowly.

Does HRT help you lose weight?

Hormone replacement therapy (HRT) isn't a weight-loss treatment. It can ease symptoms such as hot flushes and poor sleep, but its benefits and risks need to be discussed with your doctor or gynaecologist.

Do I need more calcium and vitamin D?

After the menopause, bones thin faster, so calcium (dairy products, curd cheese, sardines, green vegetables) and vitamin D matter. Whether you need supplements is best decided together with your doctor.

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